How often should parents run checks?

Monthly is a strong baseline, with extra checks after high-visibility posts.

Can this be done without violating trust?

Yes, when expectations and response steps are agreed together in advance.

If teens feel watched, they hide behavior. Start by agreeing on what risks to watch for and what to do if something goes wrong.

Tools should support trust, not replace it.

Define what to screenshot, who to tell, and how quickly to respond to fake accounts or stolen photos.

When everyone knows the process, panic drops and action improves.

You do not need to scan every image. Focus on public posts, viral content, and photos that reveal school or location context.

A targeted routine is easier to sustain and less intrusive.

If misuse is found, preserve evidence, report on-platform, and alert relevant contacts. Keep communication simple and factual.

Speed plus calm execution usually works better than emotional escalation.

Privacy settings drift as apps update. Monthly reviews of account visibility, tagging rules, and contact permissions are worth it.

Small maintenance beats crisis response.